I was afraid but I decided to trust my husband and not say anything. But guess what, I got an sms from Winnie the next Friday saying that she is coming over and she will spend the night in our house. I got angry and called her and told her I know what she did and abused her.
Winnie started cursing me back and calling me boyfriend snatcher. She said I should stop being naïve because she can snatch my Joe anytime she wants cos she already slept with him when we were dating and she indeed slept with him again when she came to our house last Saturday. That my husband is begging her for s*x….that he said he married me to be close to her.
By this time, I did not know if Winnie was lying but then, I remembered we argued before my wedding and she mentioned that I was marrying someone she rejected. I had to call my parents and tell them what was going on. Joe denied that he has ever betrayed me or slept with Winnie since we have been dating.
The next day, a family meeting was called. Winnie did not show up but she kept cursing me, calling me stupid girl. That she slept with my husband before and after marriage. My husband said nothing happened and he is ready to swear by anything I want him to swear with. Joe said Winnie should provide evidence to show he ever slept with her but Winnie is saying, Joe is careful cos they never spoke via text for her to show me any evidence.
When we asked her where she slept with Joe before marriage, she said they had a quick f*ck in his car and they also f*cked in our bedroom. I asked Winnie why she is doing this cos she is engaged and she told me that she broke up the rich man she was engaged to because she was confused when she started developing feelings for Joe. That was when she said she got angry with me just before the wedding cos she started feeling I was taking away the man that could have been her husband.
Joe is planning to sue Winnie but Winnie said she is standing by her story. I do not know what to think anymore. I am finding myself back in that depression and darkness that I escaped from when my ex husband dumped me years ago.
Like, why is all this happening to me? My family is in confusion cos me and Winnie are now not speaking cos we do not know who to believe. Me and husband are feeling sad…he has been telling me to trust him but I know Winnie…very pretty and s*xy girl. What if she is telling the truth? How do I make love to my husband again if he f*cked my own sister in my matrimonial bed?
How do we resolve this matter, please advice…My mother said I should not allow my selfish sister take my husband, that I should not leave Joe no matter what cos Winnie is a spoilt child that does not care about anyone but herself. I spoke to Winnie’s fiance and he confirmed that they have been having issues for like two months now …that he thought she was just being her crazy self again.
I really hate this girl…why is she so evil? Its like she has marine spirit. My husband thinks she has a mental problem, that maybe she is threatened that despite her beauty, I am getting married before her…but have I not suffered enough? Why does she want to take away my happiness? Winnie knows what I have been through…why is she being mean? Was I wrong for finding happiness with a man that she claimed she did not even remember?
Ma, I am hurting so much…should Joe and I sue Winnie? My only fear is, if Winnie is telling the truth, I do not know if I can survive the shame of having to divorce twice when I am still under 30 years old. What do I do? I am confused, sad and exhausted. I need your help, Please advice me.