I jumped up and said no way. So, this is how the man has been miraculously giving people babies? By sleeping with them?
The prophet started saying that it’s the same way Jesus was conceived. That women who’s husband cannot impregnate them must be impregnanted by the holy spirit through the prophet. Well, I did not sign up for this. I was not even sure my mother inlaw did not set me up. I left the next day. Mama was upset and called me selfish names. I told my husband what happened, he did not even say anything.
From that day, mama and her daughters turned against me. They stopped talking to me. Saying I do not want to cover my husband’s shame. Eventually, I told my husband, lets get anonymous sperm donor if his family does not mind me getting pregnant by another man. I would never get pregnant by that prophet who, only God knows how many children he has fathered by this method.
My husband agreed. But we also needed money for IVF, so we started to save for sperm donation and IVF cos we were both broke. In that process, mama passed on. My husband was devastated cos his mother died without him giving her a child. After the burial, my husband’s family had a meeting that his elder sister that has two children for different men, but has been staying with mama should come and live with us.
I disagreed cos that girl, Henrietta is a trouble maker. That is why she has two children from two different men. She does not even answer me when I greet her. How do I house an adult with two children in my own home? We can barely sustain ourselves, how do I accommodate this additional cost? My husband’s earnings is nothing to write home about.
So because I disagreed on this matter, my husband said he is tired. That since marrying me, he is not happy. That I dont like his family and his family does not like me. That since we do not even have children, maybe we should separate.
This really hurt me because I have spent time and money in this marriage yet this is how my husband wants to repay me. I never knew he would ever utter such word like divorce but I am suspecting they want to push me out so they can bring someone that they can bend to do their biddings.
Please advice me. What should I do? Should I beg my husband and allow his sister plus her children stay with us or should I agree to end the marriage? I do not feel happy anymore. I am tired of trying too cos I am even not the cause of the childlessness. Please advice me everyone.