Please Advise: My Husband Is A Chronic Cheat He Brings Pr0-stitutes To Our Home – 2

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Now, my fear is, how can this man do such a lousy thing like  sleeping with pr0-stitutes in your own matrimonial home. That is total lack of disrespect. What of the of STDs? How do I protect myself from these STDs. He says he uses condom but I know its not true.

I know I made a mistake for marrying such a man but the mistake is already done. What can I do going forward…people are mocking me cos its me that will even clean the room and bed after he finish having s3-x with  these strange women. Sometimes, after the act, maybe he is drunk, I will be the one to pay the pr0-stitute so she does not start making trouble for my neighbors to hear. I am so ashamed.

I now understand that my husband’s generosity is not peculiar to me, he likes to spoil women with money and no woman will mind these money spending gestures I know.  I have begged my husband to stop bringing these girls to our house cos our child is watching and its not good for our child development.

My husband has refused to listen to all my begging. I feel ridiculed. His brother’s wife came to our house one time and saw how my husband’s behavior is embarrassing me. This woman was like, If I need help on how to deal with my husband’s promiscuous lifestyle, I should let her know.

I eventually called her later and told her how frustrating the situation is. The first thing she asked me was, how many children do you want to have, I told her two. She then told me that the solution is better taken when I am done having my children. This woman told me that if I take the action to stop my husband from cheating, if my husband sleeps with another woman, his thing will not rise again or the second option, he can have s3-x but he cannot get any woman pregnant including me, that might make him loose interest in outside women and s3-x in total.

I really am tempted to use the solution my sister inlaw is proffering. Its just that it also means I too will not enjoy my husband S3x-xvally. She said I can use s3-x toys anytime I feel like. That she used the same thing on her husband when she finished giving birth to her all children.

Now, her husband does not look at other woman. That she used the second option, that even her husband has erection with her, he does not have erection with other woman…that she rather have an impotent man that one who brings pr0-stitutes home everyday. She advised me to wait until I finish having my children. I thought I would never consider this solution but my husband has gotten worse and now, I found out I am pregnant again, my first baby is just 8 months.

I am strongly thinking of taking that solution cos I am tired of being married to a community pen-is but then, I also feel bad I am going to take away my husband’s ability to get an erection again. But I have no choice now…otherwise, is this how our marriage will be until we are old? He already has 3 children from his first wife…plus mine 2…is that not adequate?

I do not know why I feel a little guilty but I will be protecting my husband and I from disease and other dangers of having s8x with pr0-stitutes…is that such a bad thing? Please what do you think….should I do option 1 or option 2….put yourself in my shoes cos even western men do hysterectomy to prevent pregnancy….is this not the same thing?

Please advise me…I have complained to everyone of his family members about this but none of them want to say anything cos he has money plus they feel that I should have known that my husband has been like this since forever, that no one can talk to him…what if one of these pr0-stitutes plan to k!ll him or try to harm me one day? I just want to save my husband and my life…is this so bad?

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