My wife and I met as Students in Canada. We got married and were doing very well but after a while, I decided to return home, my dad is old and wanted me to take over the family business. My wife did not like the idea because she told me when we got married that she is estranged from her mother. That means, she and her mother are not talking.
My wife told me that soon as her father died, her mother started sleeping around and never had time for her. Her mother always sent her to boarding school so she cannot stay in the house with her numerous boyfriends. Even during holidays, she made her stay back in boarding school or sent her off to her grandmother’s place or her Aunties place. Suffice to say, my wife hates her mother.
Our wedding was in Canada, only her friends in Canada attended whilst all my family members in attendance, even from Nigeria. At the time, I did not really want to bother my wife because anytime I brought up her trying to make up with her mother, my wife goes ballistic. So, when I decided to relocate to Nigeria, I feared my wife was afraid of seeing her mother again, so, I agreed that she can stay back in Canada and look after the children.
Its been a year since I came back to Nigeria. I decided to do some investigation into my wife’s mother. She is a wealthy woman, well known in Rivers state. I located her and paid her a visit two months ago. I introduced myself as someone that knew her daughter while in school in Canada. I never told her I am her daughter’s husband. Soon as I mentioned my wife’s name, her face changed.
This woman became upset and said…why are you here? That she has no daughter by that name and she wants nothing to do with her. That was when I told her, I was her daughter’s husband and I want to know why she hates her daughter and her daughter hates her. She said she does not hate her daughter but her daughter was a spoilt child and she was possessed.
That at age 15, she was already sleeping around. Her father was alive then but nothing they did could change her behavior. Then when the father died, she became more out of control so she sent her to boarding school. She was expelled from school for many truants. When she brought her home to be a day student, she said her daughter started sedu-c!ng her new husband.
That her daughter and husband started havings3x behind her back. At 17, her daughter had had 2 abo-rt!ons for her husband whom she already has twins for. That when she discovered, here daughter lied that the man rap-3d her. She divorced the man but the man almost committed sui-c!de few months later because it was a huge scandal. So because of this, she and her daughter became estranged.
In her thinking, she felt it would be better her daughter stayed away from her and her twins because the twins father almost died because of affair with her. She and the husband are reconciled because he showed her several evidence that it was her daughter that kept forcing herself on him. Her mother also found out her daughter was sleeping with several married men in the neighborhood. She also decided that she cannot have the husband of her children and her daughter in the same house.
All these that my wife’s mother told me really disturbed me. She said her daughter hated her because she exposed her lies. It made me realize that my wife had been through so much and was probably too damaged and there is no point of trying to reconcile her and her mother because her mother has children for the man that she had an affair with.
When I told my wife’s mother that my wife was back in Canada with our kids, she told me to never trust my wife because, she knows my wife is a nymphomaniac. Someone is addicted to s3xs alot. That my wife got it from her father. Her father was a chronic womanizer. So, she knows its genetic. So, my wife must have been hiding who she truly is from me. I told her my wife has truly changed.
After I left this woman, I was not at ease. I wanted to make sure she was not lying so I made a surprise visit to Canada last month. On getting home, my wife was not home by the time she was supposed to get back from work. The baby sitter was with the children until 9pm. I asked the baby sitter to go and waited for my wife until she got back around past 12 mid night..